

One of the most brilliant people I ever worked with was a man named Steven.
I came to him once with a project I was excited about - something with a lot of variables, something broken that needed fixing.
In my mind, this was the good stuff. I was handing him an opportunity.
He looked at me and said, "No. That's not what I do."
He told me: “I'm an expert. I steward things. I go deep and make sense out of what already exists. You're asking me to do something with way too many variables for my taste.”
At first, I'll admit, it stung a little.
I had given him the gift I actually wanted. The kind of messy, fix-it project that lights me up.
But that's not what he was built for, and he knew himself well enough to say so.
That's the thing about leading in a way that doesn't match who you are: most people can't name why it's not working.
They just feel tired, or stuck, or vaguely frustrated. They take on work that doesn't fit because they don't have the vocabulary to explain what does fit.
Over time, they start to wonder if something's wrong with them, when really, it's the position.
The people who know their leadership style have a self-understanding most people don't, and a vocabulary to communicate it.
They can explain what kind of work they do best, what conditions they thrive in, what they need from a role to actually be effective.
When you’re practiced at this, you’re able to position yourself for the work you're uniquely suited for and make that case to the people around you.
Steven wasn't just saying no. He was telling me exactly what he was built for and inviting me to use him well.
That kind of clarity protects you from burnout and helps the people leading you actually lead you better.


The Trailblazers assessment identifies four core leadership styles, each with its own strengths, blind spots, and growth edges.
If you haven't taken it yet, start here →
Once you know your style, check back on this section each week for tailored advice.
The Chief: You're built to see the whole landscape and hold the line. If someone keeps handing you fragmented tasks with no view of the bigger picture, name it: "I do my best work when I can see how it connects to the larger goal."
The Innovator: You're built to envision what's next and pull people toward it. If you're stuck maintaining what already exists, name it: "I thrive when there's something new to build. Can we talk about where that lives in this role?"
The Disruptor: You're built to fix what's broken and push change forward. If everything's "fine" and no one wants anything questioned, name it: "I'm at my best when there's a real problem to solve. What's not working that nobody wants to touch?"
The Expert: You're built to go deep and develop real mastery. If you're spread too thin, name it: "I need enough focus to actually develop expertise here. Can we talk about what to deprioritize?"


Until next time,
Val Porter Cook
President & CEO, Blaze Leadership

